Oct. 22, 2026
Everything You Missed: The Best of The Perfect Pair
Apple Podcasts 
Spotify 
iHeartRadio Catch the best moments from the Perfect Pair Podcast. See our favorite highlights from recent car chats and studio sessions. This compilation features the most engaging segments from our ongoing series. We explore candid relationship advice and deep conversations that define the spirit of our show. Whether we are recording in the studio or having honest discussions on the road, these clips capture the core of our dynamic. If you enjoy listening to raw podcast highlights, this collection serves as the perfect introduction to our style. We focus on authentic couples conversation, covering the challenges and joys of navigating life together. These moments offer a glimpse into the unfiltered topics we tackle every week. Subscribe for weekly relationship discussions and let us know in the comments which segment resonated with you most.
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
00:00:00
Speaker 1: You know what really pisses me off?
00:00:02
Speaker 2: And it's always so annoying. I'm like, ugh!
00:00:06
Speaker 1: He sees the positive out of everything.
00:00:13
Speaker 3: This podcast is for all couples. If you need some advice or you're just trying to see how.
00:00:18
Speaker 1: Do we make it work, we're just going to give out our advice to you. Yep, I've gotten trained pretty well, I think.
00:00:24
Speaker 2: We don't have a perfect marriage or a perfect relationship.
00:00:28
Speaker 4: But what we have is we've learned to love each of our imperfections.
00:00:33
Speaker 1: Learn each other's love language.
00:00:35
Speaker 3: And I feel like if you wake up every single day just to say, hey, I just want to figure out what I can do today to make that person happy.
00:00:42
Speaker 4: I'll tell you what she farted in the bed.
00:00:45
Speaker 1: True story.
00:00:46
Speaker 4: You're my little smelly poo.
00:00:58
Speaker 1: Yes.
00:00:58
Speaker 2: How you feeling, my little sugar-dumpley-wumpleys?
00:01:02
Speaker 4: Tight.
00:01:03
Speaker 2: We just got back from out of town.
00:01:05
Speaker 1: We've been traveling for like eight days straight, I feel like. I'm a zombie.
00:01:09
Speaker 4: I'm on about an hour and a half of sleep right about now. She got a chance to catch up on her sleep, though. She's been in bed all day.
00:01:16
Speaker 3: Sure have, and have no problem in bed now. Man, my body is on shutdown mode.
00:01:23
Speaker 4: So... If you listen to the podcast, the Perfect Pair podcast, you know a lot about Crystal and I. But there's one thing you may not know yet that we haven't really shared.
00:01:33
Speaker 1: What? That we like country music?
00:01:37
Speaker 3: Yeah, we were getting a lot of people in shock to know that we like country music.
00:01:41
Speaker 2: We love country music, doggone it.
00:01:43
Speaker 3: I do. I love it. I love it.
00:01:45
Speaker 1: They play like the best, they have the best storylines.
00:01:48
Speaker 3: And I feel like, especially the men, boy, if they love you, they let you know how much they love you. Like, they know how to express their love in their songs. And it's just be like, dang, that's awesome. And for them to, like, I want a man to feel like.
00:02:03
Speaker 2: That about me. This song right here that I'm about to play. I just want you to see. I want to see if you like it or not.
00:02:11
Speaker 1: Okay.
00:02:12
Speaker 2: All right, so this is a song. For my boo mama.
00:02:18
Speaker 5: Well, I went for it three times to take you on a date.
00:02:23
Speaker 6: And after I gave up, would you turn the tables and try? And then you.
00:02:40
Speaker 7: Still tried to cancel, but I wasn't letting that fly.
00:02:50
Speaker 5: And on the first trip to Vegas, you were burnt out.
00:02:56
Speaker 6: I'll always remember the whole time just watching you sleep. But just to be there with you was.
00:03:11
Speaker 8: Always enough for me.
00:03:19
Speaker 6: And you always tease me for stumbling when I talk.
00:03:24
Speaker 5: You catch me red-handed just trying to play it off.
00:03:29
Speaker 6: But there's no words to tell you. No, there's nothing I could say.
00:03:36
Speaker 8: I fall in love with you all over again every day. And your smile is a mild smile And no one compares as a mother Crystal.
00:04:05
Speaker 5: We may not be perfect But I know.
00:04:12
Speaker 6: We're perfect for each other I know that sometimes we.
00:04:19
Speaker 2: At the time we.
00:04:21
Speaker 6: Were punishing the kings.
00:04:24
Speaker 7: And I fell asleep I'm playing football on our honeymoon But you're still there cheering for.
00:04:37
Speaker 5: Me That's right, man.
00:04:39
Speaker 1: That is so sweet.
00:04:43
Speaker 6: You're the true definition of a mom.
00:04:48
Speaker 8: Can you imagine life without you?
00:04:54
Speaker 5: We ended up right where we belong.
00:04:59
Speaker 2: Everything you do is so amazing.
00:05:02
Speaker 6: And I had to tell.
00:05:04
Speaker 8: You just because.
00:05:10
Speaker 6: Well, I know everybody loves seeing your smile.
00:05:15
Speaker 2: Well, that's fine with me. Just don't give a mind.
00:05:21
Speaker 6: Cause there's no words to tell. No, there's nothing I could say.
00:05:31
Speaker 5: I fall in love with you all over again every day. Hey, you're my heartbeat. My best friend and my lover. This story may not be perfect. But I know we're perfect for each other. Yes, we are.
00:06:06
Speaker 8: It may not be perfect.
00:06:09
Speaker 2: But I know we're perfect.
00:06:11
Speaker 5: For each other.
00:06:15
Speaker 1: You're so sweet. Oh, my God.
00:06:19
Speaker 2: I was not.
00:06:20
Speaker 1: Expecting that at all. But I kept listening to it. I was like, damn.
00:06:26
Speaker 2: That's our story.
00:06:27
Speaker 4: I know.
00:06:27
Speaker 1: But I was like, dang, this is a perfect song.
00:06:30
Speaker 3: I just thought it was randomly a song that we could relate to.
00:06:33
Speaker 2: Until you heard Crystal.
00:06:34
Speaker 4: I did.
00:06:34
Speaker 3: And I was like, Crystal.
00:06:36
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, is this a coincidence?
00:06:41
Speaker 1: Oh, babe, you're so sweet. I love you, my little mama. Oh, my God, you're the sweetest ever. That was the best thing ever.
00:06:52
Speaker 2: I was not expecting it at all.
00:06:57
Speaker 1: You went from.
00:06:58
Speaker 2: A laugh to a cry.
00:07:00
Speaker 6: Thanks.
00:07:00
Speaker 2: I was like.
00:07:03
Speaker 3: That smile.
00:07:04
Speaker 1: I'm like, yep, you do.
00:07:08
Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh, babe.
00:07:09
Speaker 1: I just thought, like, yep, you just been giving me grief.
00:07:12
Speaker 5: Yep.
00:07:13
Speaker 2: You're agreeing with all of it. I was. Yep.
00:07:19
Speaker 3: Because you know there's a lot of songs out there like that.
00:07:24
Speaker 1: Like, you can relate to... So that's why I wasn't even expecting. Babe, when did this happen?
00:07:29
Speaker 2: Don't worry about it, Jack.
00:07:31
Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
00:07:32
Speaker 2: Just call me your little stinker.
00:07:33
Speaker 1: Right. How did you do it?
00:07:36
Speaker 2: I got skills.
00:07:37
Speaker 1: Yes, you do.
00:07:38
Speaker 2: You did that, babe.
00:07:39
Speaker 1: You did that. You might get some tonight.
00:07:43
Speaker 4: Oh!
00:07:44
Speaker 1: Even though I'm tired.
00:07:48
Speaker 5: Yes.
00:07:49
Speaker 2: I'm a big fan of the bro hug.
00:07:50
Speaker 8: Right.
00:07:50
Speaker 2: Like, what up, homie?
00:07:51
Speaker 5: Boom.
00:07:52
Speaker 2: Give that. Bring each other in. Like, what's up, man?
00:07:54
Speaker 1: Okay, we're going to get back to this in a minute. I got to say this before I forget.
00:07:58
Speaker 3: Rocky bro-hugged a young woman that looked like a man.
00:08:03
Speaker 1: And he had no idea. Listen, and this is no disrespect to anybody.
00:08:09
Speaker 3: And I love this young lady because she was okay with it. Because we were getting ready to do a shoot somewhere.
00:08:16
Speaker 1: And he sees this young woman.
00:08:22
Speaker 3: But she does look and dress just like a man. And the voice was like a man.
00:08:28
Speaker 1: So we go up. We're introducing ourselves. Like, hey, how are you? What's up, dog?
00:08:33
Speaker 3: He pounds her hand, brings her in so hard, like, to his chest. It smacks the back of her back.
00:08:40
Speaker 1: Okay? That's what you get. He hurt himself back here.
00:08:44
Speaker 3: And then he did it again at the basketball game when he was getting popcorn for me.
00:08:50
Speaker 1: And somebody... He was like, here you go. He gave it. He's like, thank you, sir. And he was like, I'm a woman. I'm a woman. I'm like, Rocky!
00:09:00
Speaker 3: When I tell you I appreciate them so much, like, every time now I go to the concession stand, I'm.
00:09:05
Speaker 1: Like, I'm sorry. And she's like, don't worry about it. You good.
00:09:08
Speaker 2: You good.
00:09:09
Speaker 1: You good. That's how she say it.
00:09:10
Speaker 4: You good.
00:09:11
Speaker 1: Because that's how she sound. Rocky, I'm not trying to be funny. I'm not. Like, I'm really not.
00:09:17
Speaker 2: Because we were downsizing out of our other house.
00:09:20
Speaker 8: Oh, my God.
00:09:20
Speaker 2: You know, when you're moving. You're like, okay, now you decide, keep this. Goodwill, take this to the goodwill. I'm not going to need this. Okay, that's trash. Okay, this is goodwill. So she's telling me, babe, you ain't going to keep all these doggone clothes.
00:09:33
Speaker 3: Rocky gots every different color of Dickie shorts.
00:09:37
Speaker 2: Oh, I ain't throwing my Dickie shorts away. I ain't giving my Dickie shorts away.
00:09:41
Speaker 1: Babe, when's the last time you, and then these Dickie shorts go to his ankles.
00:09:45
Speaker 2: Yeah, old school. Remember the old school jiggies?
00:09:48
Speaker 1: Who wears those? He cannot wear those ever again. Like, not around me.
00:09:53
Speaker 2: They gonna come in handy one day.
00:09:54
Speaker 1: No, they're not. No, you messed up. You messed up.
00:09:57
Speaker 3: Like, how you gave me a shitty-ass Valentine's not to bring it up. You had to own up to that shit.
00:10:00
Speaker 6: See?
00:10:01
Speaker 1: See? I'm sorry. I didn't mean to bring it up, but you had to own... Did you own up to it?
00:10:04
Speaker 2: I owned up to it, but.
00:10:05
Speaker 1: Okay.
00:10:06
Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, you owned up to it. You couldn't justify it no more. And when you tried to, you got.
00:10:09
Speaker 1: In more trouble.
00:10:10
Speaker 2: Look, so... When you tried.
00:10:12
Speaker 3: Didn't you try to? When you tried to go into that bullshit, talking about, I was just so caught up into your.
00:10:18
Speaker 2: And I finally had to just say, you know what? I messed up.
00:10:20
Speaker 8: Right.
00:10:20
Speaker 1: And then we good.
00:10:22
Speaker 3: Right.
00:10:22
Speaker 1: But that's the point. You didn't do that.
00:10:23
Speaker 2: But aren't we good? But aren't we good? Because you're still bringing the crap up.
00:10:25
Speaker 3: Right.
00:10:26
Speaker 2: So we obviously ain't good.
00:10:27
Speaker 1: We good.
00:10:28
Speaker 2: You having a Will Smith moment.
00:10:29
Speaker 1: Wait, no. The reason why I'm saying.
00:10:31
Speaker 2: Do I need to slap the hell out of you?
00:10:32
Speaker 1: I wish you would.
00:10:33
Speaker 2: Shit.
00:10:33
Speaker 3: I wish to see us two fighting on this podcast today.
00:10:37
Speaker 1: What? Rocky. You lost your damn mind.
00:10:42
Speaker 2: I have no solution for that.
00:10:44
Speaker 1: At all.
00:10:44
Speaker 3: And he just had to listen and understand like. Even if he be like, man, I don't understand. That's the point because you don't understand. So listen and then understand. Doesn't mean you got to agree with it. Doesn't mean it's saying she's right and you wrong and everything. It does not say any of that. All it says is that you're starting to understand why your spouse is reacting and acting the way they are.
00:11:08
Speaker 1: And he just did a yawn.
00:11:09
Speaker 2: Oh, man, that snuck up on me.
00:11:10
Speaker 1: In the midst of that.
00:11:11
Speaker 3: Of this serious, in-depth, important conversation. It wasn't because of what you were saying.
00:11:17
Speaker 1: Okay, this is another example of saying you know your spouse.
00:11:22
Speaker 2: I've been up since what time?
00:11:24
Speaker 1: Listen, this is the point I'm making. Because I know you've been up.
00:11:29
Speaker 2: I was trying to hold it in.
00:11:30
Speaker 1: And you've been running around.
00:11:33
Speaker 3: It's the reason why I'm not going to get mad at you like I would in the past.
00:11:36
Speaker 1: Like, are you serious in the midst of this whole conversation?
00:11:38
Speaker 2: You going to yawn?
00:11:39
Speaker 1: He still tries to not let me have my moment.
00:11:43
Speaker 2: Oh, I'll give you a moment now.
00:11:45
Speaker 3: You do now, but you slipped up a couple of weeks ago.
00:11:48
Speaker 2: I did.
00:11:50
Speaker 1: You don't remember sitting in front of that TV and how you messed up? First of all, let me tell y'all what happened. I'll tell y'all what happened. Been gone all day.
00:11:59
Speaker 3: We ain't seen each other since 4 o'clock in the morning. It is like 7 o'clock at night. He's been at home chilling, relaxing.
00:12:07
Speaker 1: He done fished. He done did all.
00:12:09
Speaker 2: Call me a couple baths.
00:12:11
Speaker 1: He done took a shower. He's relaxed. He's everything.
00:12:14
Speaker 3: So, you know, my son's in the shower and stuff. So I finally sit down. He turns on the Netflix. He starts watching movies. But I'm like, babe. I said, that is so rude. Like, I just got home, and you're turning up the TV. You're laid back. Like, you're not even going to talk to me.
00:12:28
Speaker 2: I'm kicking my feet eating popcorn.
00:12:30
Speaker 1: And then I was like, I should really cut you out right now.
00:12:32
Speaker 2: I was wrong for that.
00:12:33
Speaker 1: And then he was like, ah, you right.
00:12:35
Speaker 3: I said, like, I seriously should have cut you out. Rocky, you do a lot of, like, babe, we going to go here.
00:12:38
Speaker 1: I want to do this. I want to do that.
00:12:40
Speaker 3: Let's go to the movies, this and that. Rocky would be like, babe, you want to go on? This is true story.
00:12:44
Speaker 1: Babe, you want to go to the movies?
00:12:45
Speaker 4: Yeah.
00:12:46
Speaker 3: All right.
00:12:47
Speaker 1: You going to buy the ticket? You going to pick the seats? You going to do this, this and that? Did you all ask me.
00:12:54
Speaker 2: To go to the damn movies?
00:12:55
Speaker 7: This is supposed to be you.
00:12:57
Speaker 1: Oh, you so raggedy. So raggedy. Like, I forgot who. Where did this fall off to be my responsibility to do the shit? Wait a minute. No, wait a minute, nothing. No, wait a minute, nothing.
00:13:09
Speaker 2: I have a legitimate reason and argument for that.
00:13:12
Speaker 1: What?
00:13:12
Speaker 4: So, you love online shopping. Anything with an app on the phone, my wife loves doing.
00:13:19
Speaker 2: I do. So, I'm going to let you enjoy that. So, yeah, I may ask you out for a date. So, when it comes to purchasing the tickets, you're already doing it.
00:13:27
Speaker 1: And he mean it. Do you see that he's justifying this shit? He don't see that he put his foot further and further in his mouth. Let me just say this.
00:13:36
Speaker 3: To all the women that is divorcing or about to separate from their spouse that is a high caliber celebrity or a big athlete, whoever they are, and they got all this money. For some reason, people feel like they should just leave with what they came with.
00:13:52
Speaker 4: Right.
00:13:53
Speaker 3: But when she was with him and she was helping him build all of this together, why shouldn't she get? She was with this man and helped and supported him throughout his career.
00:14:04
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't she? She had his kids.
00:14:07
Speaker 2: So you opening up a... Can of worms on this one right here.
00:14:10
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, because.
00:14:11
Speaker 3: I'm tired of people looking at the women as if they're like gold diggers because these people have a lot of money.
00:14:18
Speaker 1: This man has millions of dollars.
00:14:21
Speaker 3: They expect this woman to get the bare minimum just to take care of the kids. It is not the kids' fault that the marriage is failing. So whoever's fault it is, it shouldn't matter and it shouldn't change these kids' lifestyle.
00:14:33
Speaker 1: So whatever lifestyle it.
00:14:35
Speaker 3: Was when y'all was together, it needs to be the same whenever y'all are separate. So if it has to be the man making sure that happens for their kids, then.
00:14:42
Speaker 1: So be it.
00:14:43
Speaker 2: Let's just say for easy math, $ 100 million.
00:14:45
Speaker 1: Okay.
00:14:46
Speaker 4: He's worth $ 100 million. I can't speak for any other man that's going through the same situation. But if this is me, and let's say I agree with my attorney to give you $ 10 million.
00:14:58
Speaker 2: And because of.
00:15:02
Speaker 4: The type of person that I am, and hopefully you think I'm this type of person, it doesn't stop just at that $ 10 million as far as like, okay, don't bother me no more. You ain't getting another dime. It's like, okay, we split. This is plenty of money for you to keep on.
00:15:19
Speaker 2: Living the same lifestyle you've been living. Keep in mind, for you. This ain't even got nothing to do with the kids yet.
00:15:25
Speaker 1: This is you.
00:15:26
Speaker 3: So you can't say, well, I did the kid stuff and I did the school and the clothes and all that.
00:15:31
Speaker 1: Okay, I get that.
00:15:32
Speaker 2: The kids are going to get taken care of.
00:15:34
Speaker 1: I get that. This is for you. Okay, keep going.
00:15:36
Speaker 3: Now, but what I'm saying is if you're worth $ 100 million, you got.
00:15:42
Speaker 1: $ 100 million.
00:15:43
Speaker 3: And you're talking about giving me $ 10 million.
00:15:47
Speaker 1: Is that how much I was percentage for our marriage? Was I only 10% of our marriage?
00:15:51
Speaker 2: Absolutely not.
00:15:53
Speaker 1: So why would you give me 10%?
00:15:55
Speaker 3: We've already said when we were married, 100-100, right?
00:16:00
Speaker 2: Absolutely.
00:16:01
Speaker 3: And when we do stuff, we always split everything down the middle for us.
00:16:04
Speaker 1: Okay, babe, you're going to take the kids here. I'm going to do this. We always split everything.
00:16:08
Speaker 4: Okay.
00:16:09
Speaker 1: As you were building your career, when your ass was broke, who was there? Me.
00:16:14
Speaker 6: Mm-hmm.
00:16:16
Speaker 3: As you started getting bigger and better, who was there?
00:16:18
Speaker 6: Me.
00:16:19
Speaker 1: Who was rocking with you, your cheerleader? Who was doing that?
00:16:22
Speaker 2: Oh, me.
00:16:22
Speaker 3: Who was taking care of the kids when you were traveling to work, going over here, going over there?
00:16:26
Speaker 1: Who was making sure the household was together while you went out over there, over here, over there? Who made sure your drawers?
00:16:33
Speaker 2: We ain't divorced.
00:16:34
Speaker 1: I know, but I'm just saying, who made sure your drawers? I'm trying to tell y'all what these women are talking about. Who made sure your drawers was clean?
00:16:40
Speaker 2: Me.
00:16:41
Speaker 1: Who made sure dinner was cooked?
00:16:43
Speaker 6: Me.
00:16:44
Speaker 3: So at the end of the day, for you to sit up here and tell me you're going to give me 10% of what you're worth, meaning to tell me that during our marriage, that's how much you thought of me.
00:16:52
Speaker 2: That's a good point.
00:16:53
Speaker 1: So I'll be damned if.
00:16:54
Speaker 3: I'm going to just go ahead and settle for the $ 10 million because I'm worth more than that. Because I helped you be worth $ 100 million, so don't give me that raggedy-ass $ 10 million.
00:17:01
Speaker 1: But let me tell y'all something, what we about to do, though. And then we're able to just let loose as if we were in high school and college again.
00:17:10
Speaker 2: They definitely let loose.
00:17:11
Speaker 4: Remind me to post a video on Instagram with them doing a dance routine.
00:17:17
Speaker 2: And my waft is the only way it kind of goes off.
00:17:22
Speaker 1: I was real happy.
00:17:24
Speaker 2: That's all I'm going to say.
00:17:25
Speaker 1: I was real happy.
00:17:27
Speaker 4: Y'all go check the Perfect Pair podcast Instagram, and you'll see the video we're talking about.
00:17:32
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I was real happy.
00:17:34
Speaker 4: Just pay attention at the very end, when all the other girls were still in routine, and.
00:17:40
Speaker 2: My waft, only my waft.
00:17:42
Speaker 1: Why do you say it like that?
00:17:45
Speaker 2: She just starts turning the other direction.
00:17:47
Speaker 7: What?
00:17:50
Speaker 2: Go check the Perfect Pair podcast on Instagram. You'll see what we're talking about. Go ahead.
00:17:53
Speaker 1: You really go. I don't care. I had such a good time. One dude put his hand on me and I had got a two by four to go get him. I wasn't worried at all.
00:18:02
Speaker 3: Like, I've always been the one like, you're not going to hit me and think I'm just going to sit here and cry. I never understood why women would sit there and just cry when a man beat them.
00:18:09
Speaker 2: Self-defense.
00:18:09
Speaker 1: Right. But I do understand.
00:18:12
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't want to discredit on women getting abused because I know that's like really serious and that's serious.
00:18:17
Speaker 1: But for me... I've always just been a fighter myself.
00:18:20
Speaker 4: So....
00:18:22
Speaker 3: But I'm not bringing that. I never brought that to my next relationship. Like, okay, because he went upside my head. Somebody else is going to go upside my head. No, because if somebody else went upside, I know I'm going to do it to that person too. Maybe I did bring it to the next relationship.
00:18:36
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just saying. Wait. This is going to where it shouldn't be going.
00:18:43
Speaker 3: What I'm saying is we don't need to be playing the victim.
00:18:46
Speaker 1: And bringing all that drama to the next.
00:18:49
Speaker 2: Stop laughing.
00:18:49
Speaker 1: I went up a little bit.
00:18:54
Speaker 3: Rocky Rocky wants me to tell my story and be frustrated and I got a good three minutes to sit in that shit cause if I pass that three minute mark he gonna be like it's too long you mad for the world you mad all day you mad for years I'm like I mean that's when we had.
00:19:10
Speaker 2: To come up with my moment give her her moment.
00:19:12
Speaker 3: When I say he has no empathy at all he just looking at me he be looking like like almost tapping his finger like you ready for the solution ready for me to tell you how to.
00:19:20
Speaker 1: Fix this No, this is his first thing.
00:19:23
Speaker 2: I am guilty of this.
00:19:23
Speaker 1: This is what he did. You want to know what I think?
00:19:26
Speaker 3: No.
00:19:28
Speaker 4: No.
00:19:29
Speaker 6: No.
00:19:29
Speaker 1: I don't want to know what you think. I sure don't. Why are you laughing? You're so disrespectful right now. Jesus shit. Rocky. You need your answer. You know how.
00:19:44
Speaker 3: You're supposed to close your mirrors to come in? Yeah. I do, but when I was reversing this one, time, I didn't fold the mirrors in.
00:19:52
Speaker 2: The whole mirror went wah-wah.
00:19:54
Speaker 3: And as I'm going back, as I'm going back, I see that it wasn't going to clear, but I couldn't stop for some reason.
00:20:03
Speaker 2: Once again, hit the freaking brake.
00:20:06
Speaker 1: She keeps going. And it goes and it just.
00:20:09
Speaker 2: And she keeps going. She panics.
00:20:11
Speaker 1: I did.
00:20:12
Speaker 2: You hear it crackling and you just keep going.
00:20:14
Speaker 3: I did.
00:20:15
Speaker 2: I did.
00:20:16
Speaker 1: I've only did it like four times.
00:20:18
Speaker 2: You hear that?
00:20:19
Speaker 4: Yeah.
00:20:21
Speaker 2: Only four times.
00:20:23
Speaker 1: Only four times.
00:20:24
Speaker 3: And now he's just like, every time, babe, let me show you.
00:20:28
Speaker 1: You know, this is a true story. He puts a.
00:20:30
Speaker 3: Mattress in the garage to where I have nowhere to stop. Right.
00:20:36
Speaker 1: So I won't run into it.
00:20:37
Speaker 2: This is true. It's a true story. There's a damn mattress in the garage.
00:20:40
Speaker 1: The true story is a mattress.
00:20:42
Speaker 2: It can serve as a bumper. When I make her play, it don't look like a bumper.
00:20:46
Speaker 3: No, it has juices all running through it, swirling around.
00:20:49
Speaker 2: So if you lean the plate a little bit, shit might fall off. I'm like, babe.
00:20:53
Speaker 1: But I don't say anything. I'm like, you know what, babe? Thank you. Shit, thank you. I appreciate it.
00:20:59
Speaker 2: Hey, so you want me to pay attention to detail?
00:21:00
Speaker 4: Yes!
00:21:01
Speaker 1: Like, every time I'm like, babe.
00:21:04
Speaker 2: I think we just discovered why you don't like me making your blade.
00:21:06
Speaker 1: That's okay. I get it myself.
00:21:08
Speaker 3: Because by the time, I'm going to have to get up and get everything anyway because you don't get everything.
00:21:12
Speaker 2: No, it makes sense now because you be not feeling well.
00:21:16
Speaker 4: You'd be sick, and I'm like, hey, babe, I'll make you play before you.
00:21:19
Speaker 2: Steve would be like, ah, I'll come in and get it.
00:21:21
Speaker 1: Every time. It's okay, babe. Because I would either get irritated, like, really? Every time?
00:21:29
Speaker 3: We've been together 16 years, and he still forgets a fork, or he still won't bring a napkin.
00:21:37
Speaker 1: And here, look, oh, you want something to drink?
00:21:39
Speaker 6: Do you think?
00:21:41
Speaker 1: Yes. Babe, why are you laughing? Don't wash dishes. You won't.
00:21:46
Speaker 2: I sure don't.
00:21:47
Speaker 1: He won't.
00:21:47
Speaker 2: But I don't have a problem doing it. But here's why I don't. Because you don't like the way I wash dishes.
00:21:51
Speaker 4: No.
00:21:52
Speaker 1: Babe, you liar.
00:21:54
Speaker 2: You don't like the way I wash dishes.
00:21:55
Speaker 3: Rocky.
00:21:55
Speaker 2: You don't like the way I wash clothes.
00:21:57
Speaker 1: No, I don't.
00:21:57
Speaker 2: You don't like the way I fold clothes.
00:21:59
Speaker 1: No, I don't.
00:22:00
Speaker 2: So what's the point?
00:22:01
Speaker 6: No.
00:22:01
Speaker 1: Okay, listen.
00:22:02
Speaker 2: Why am I going to do all this when you're going to go behind me and redo it anyways?
00:22:06
Speaker 1: No. What I'm saying is, Rocky, you won't wash.
00:22:09
Speaker 3: I don't even remember when you ever washed a dish since we've been together.
00:22:13
Speaker 1: Dating.
00:22:14
Speaker 3: Dating. Girlfriend, boyfriend, fiance, to husband and wife. Rocky has not washed one dick. I came home and I said, babe, do you notice.
00:22:28
Speaker 2: Anything different from me?
00:22:30
Speaker 1: You haven't said anything.
00:22:31
Speaker 3: I've been at home for like 10 hours by now.
00:22:34
Speaker 1: And he hasn't said anything.
00:22:36
Speaker 3: I bet I had got my lashes done, okay? So, he didn't even know. This is the first time I've ever done eyelash extensions.
00:22:42
Speaker 1: Just FYI.
00:22:43
Speaker 2: Now, keep in mind, they wasn't like big eyelash extensions.
00:22:46
Speaker 1: So, this time when he ain't said nothing all day. Dang, he ain't said nothing. So I was like, babe, have you noticed anything different about me? He was like, oh. Yeah, come on. Let me show you. He was like, oh, yeah. He just, he kept grabbing me like, babe, yeah, yeah. I said, what is it?
00:23:11
Speaker 4: You look nice.
00:23:12
Speaker 1: What is it?
00:23:13
Speaker 3: What about that looks so nice.
00:23:15
Speaker 1: About what I got on?
00:23:16
Speaker 4: Well, how to kill the mood in the bedroom. You already know my number one. That damn Bonnie. She got heels on.
00:23:22
Speaker 3: Cherry apple, fire engine red.
00:23:25
Speaker 1: I thought I was killing it, too, though. I did. I did.
00:23:30
Speaker 2: Beautiful lingerie, y'all. Come into bed like, yo. I'm like, uh-huh. It's about to be, oh. Just imagine the camera and the movie starting from the heels on. Going slow all the way up to the legs. Then you get to the lingerie. Then you get up to the breast area. Then the neck.
00:23:49
Speaker 5: Then the lips.
00:23:50
Speaker 2: Then the face is beautiful. And then, bam! A big-ass bucket bonnet on your head. You're taking all this time to get down.
00:23:59
Speaker 5: Ready.
00:23:59
Speaker 2: And get your little sexiness on.
00:24:01
Speaker 1: I did.
00:24:02
Speaker 2: You looked in the mirror before you came out the bathroom.
00:24:05
Speaker 1: What part of that picture?
00:24:06
Speaker 3: I got myself, I was hyping myself up.
00:24:08
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, you about to do this. I just knew. I was about to turn it out with that monitor and everything. When you support him from a distance, that means a lot to them.
00:24:18
Speaker 2: Huge.
00:24:18
Speaker 1: And they know.
00:24:19
Speaker 3: And when they come back around to start to tell you what everything is, and then you're receiving it.
00:24:24
Speaker 1: You're listening.
00:24:25
Speaker 3: You stop and you listen to him, whether you agree with him or not. Stop and listen to him on what he's saying he's done and what he's going to do, why he was being so distant with you. And just understand where he's coming from. And when you start to do that, you start to communicate better. And even if he was wrong, now you can tell him, well, babe, I don't think this is a good idea. He's more willing to listen to what.
00:24:45
Speaker 2: You have to say. Message. You preaching today, Jack? Shoot. My boo mama preaching today.
00:24:52
Speaker 3: I'm walking around the house. I put on my little shorts. You know, my little cute little outfit.
00:24:57
Speaker 2: And I compliment you every time you. Okay, that's another thing. Because she was walking around looking fine.
00:25:02
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's another thing.
00:25:03
Speaker 2: Like, fine, I caught him.
00:25:04
Speaker 1: He said, oh, babe, you're looking good. What?
00:25:06
Speaker 3: Okay, so that shit, I'm thinking, okay, that's a hint. He's starting to get the hint, like, babe, you're looking good, this and that. I'll run a candlelight bath water with, like, this little Epson lavender in there, everything to soak his body.
00:25:19
Speaker 1: Bathe him. This fool goes to sleep.
00:25:24
Speaker 2: I got a reason for it.
00:25:25
Speaker 1: I got a reason.
00:25:26
Speaker 2: You put me to sleep, bae. That lavender bath? By the way, keep that on our list because you got to keep doing that.
00:25:32
Speaker 7: No.
00:25:32
Speaker 1: I don't get nothing out of it.
00:25:34
Speaker 2: I ain't never been that relaxed.
00:25:35
Speaker 1: You said I don't. Why would I do stuff like that?
00:25:39
Speaker 2: I ain't never been that relaxed, bae. I was like, yo. I was like, man. That I don't. I felt like a little baby. Y'all didn't say you sleep like a baby.
00:25:46
Speaker 1: You did. You did.
00:25:48
Speaker 2: I curled up and started sucking my thumbs.
00:25:49
Speaker 3: We came home this summer and I told her. You have to tell us where you going and coming.
00:25:55
Speaker 2: True story.
00:25:55
Speaker 1: Don't be coming out all hours of the night. Be respectful. And then, if you're not going to pay no bills, you better clean up. Yeah. How many times did I have to get on to her?
00:26:03
Speaker 2: You had to remind her a couple times.
00:26:04
Speaker 1: Okay, and how many times did you get on to her?
00:26:05
Speaker 2: I didn't have to because you already did.
00:26:07
Speaker 3: Okay, exactly, exactly. But you already did. But no, and then every time I'm telling her, don't give her money. Every single time, who gives her money?
00:26:14
Speaker 2: Hold on now.
00:26:16
Speaker 3: Time out you every babe every single time even right before we left listen first of all me and my daughter we get braids all the time so there's all kinds of braids hair in my house when i say colors you know it you see out here wait no no.
00:26:29
Speaker 2: How do you buy braids with money Thank you. So who's giving her the money to buy the hair and to get this?
00:26:35
Speaker 1: You.
00:26:36
Speaker 2: No, you're doing it.
00:26:37
Speaker 1: You paid for the hair.
00:26:38
Speaker 2: Didn't you just say, we get our braids done all the time. We get our nails done all the time.
00:26:42
Speaker 6: We do.
00:26:42
Speaker 1: Okay, listen.
00:26:43
Speaker 3: But this, she has stipulations for me. But you, no, you don't ever say anything to her. I told you, told you not to give her money for her hair. I told you that already.
00:26:52
Speaker 2: No, you told me afterwards. I didn't know the hair was in the house.
00:26:56
Speaker 6: No.
00:26:57
Speaker 1: And then I was like, babe, she got me again.
00:26:59
Speaker 2: She does get me quite a few times.
00:27:00
Speaker 1: Okay, okay.
00:27:01
Speaker 2: But this particular time, I didn't know they was already here now.
00:27:05
Speaker 1: Anytime I get, she take it back. No, she can't take it back. Like, she got to use it. The point of the matter is.
00:27:10
Speaker 4: But you can't be sitting up here and act like you don't be giving her money because you be giving.
00:27:14
Speaker 2: Her money behind my back. Talking about don't tell your daddy.
00:27:17
Speaker 1: No, I do.
00:27:18
Speaker 2: Look at that camera.
00:27:19
Speaker 1: I do. I hate baths.
00:27:21
Speaker 4: Right.
00:27:22
Speaker 3: And I hate baths after workouts. So I go workout three times a week. And I work out at night. So I leave the house about 5.30. I probably won't get home until about 7.30. That means Rocky has two hours to himself with me being gone. And the reason why I'm saying this is because I'm setting it up right. He knows when I come home from working out that I want to get in the shower because nobody wants to just be sitting in their sweat after you're working out.
00:27:46
Speaker 1: I hate that. He knows I just want to get in the shower. I want to make sure that I'm clean.
00:27:51
Speaker 3: Now, in our house, at the moment, for some reason, when you run bath water, it takes all the hot water, no matter what. My husband loves taking baths.
00:27:59
Speaker 2: Sure do.
00:28:00
Speaker 1: And I'm okay with that. Like, okay, that's fine.
00:28:02
Speaker 3: I call him right before I'm coming from after my workout, and I'm letting him know, babe, I'm going to stop by the post office, and then I'm going to come home. He was like, all right, do y'all need anything? Because I always try to make sure they got something, because I didn't cook that night.
00:28:13
Speaker 1: Right. And I was like, make sure they got something to eat, so on and so forth. He said, oh, we good. We got food.
00:28:17
Speaker 3: Cool.
00:28:17
Speaker 1: Because I'm being thoughtful. Listen, I'm being real thoughtful.
00:28:21
Speaker 3: To make sure the kid, my son and my honey has eaten and they're good.
00:28:25
Speaker 1: So I come home.
00:28:27
Speaker 3: I hear that damn bath water running. And I just looked at him. I said, you've got to be kidding me.
00:28:34
Speaker 1: Are you serious?
00:28:35
Speaker 4: Ladies and gentlemen, Billy goats and girls and bats and everything else.
00:28:39
Speaker 1: Why do you do that? Just say ladies and gentlemen or just say hi. We are here to tell you guys where to subscribe.
00:28:47
Speaker 2: Why are you talking like that? You don't even talk like that.
00:28:49
Speaker 1: I know. Because I'm waiting for you. Okay. Subscribe.
00:28:54
Speaker 3: Please listen.
00:28:55
Speaker 1: You will not be sorry.
00:28:57
Speaker 2: Did you just fart?
00:28:58
Speaker 6: No.
00:28:59
Speaker 1: That's your breath.
00:29:00
Speaker 8: Oh.
00:29:02
Speaker 4: Oh.
00:29:02
Speaker 2: Come back, Tom.
00:29:04
Speaker 4: Oh.
00:29:04
Speaker 3: Oh.
00:29:05
Speaker 4: Oh.
00:29:05
Speaker 1: Bye.
00:29:06
Speaker 4: That's what you get.
Speaker 1: You know what really pisses me off?
00:00:02
Speaker 2: And it's always so annoying. I'm like, ugh!
00:00:06
Speaker 1: He sees the positive out of everything.
00:00:13
Speaker 3: This podcast is for all couples. If you need some advice or you're just trying to see how.
00:00:18
Speaker 1: Do we make it work, we're just going to give out our advice to you. Yep, I've gotten trained pretty well, I think.
00:00:24
Speaker 2: We don't have a perfect marriage or a perfect relationship.
00:00:28
Speaker 4: But what we have is we've learned to love each of our imperfections.
00:00:33
Speaker 1: Learn each other's love language.
00:00:35
Speaker 3: And I feel like if you wake up every single day just to say, hey, I just want to figure out what I can do today to make that person happy.
00:00:42
Speaker 4: I'll tell you what she farted in the bed.
00:00:45
Speaker 1: True story.
00:00:46
Speaker 4: You're my little smelly poo.
00:00:58
Speaker 1: Yes.
00:00:58
Speaker 2: How you feeling, my little sugar-dumpley-wumpleys?
00:01:02
Speaker 4: Tight.
00:01:03
Speaker 2: We just got back from out of town.
00:01:05
Speaker 1: We've been traveling for like eight days straight, I feel like. I'm a zombie.
00:01:09
Speaker 4: I'm on about an hour and a half of sleep right about now. She got a chance to catch up on her sleep, though. She's been in bed all day.
00:01:16
Speaker 3: Sure have, and have no problem in bed now. Man, my body is on shutdown mode.
00:01:23
Speaker 4: So... If you listen to the podcast, the Perfect Pair podcast, you know a lot about Crystal and I. But there's one thing you may not know yet that we haven't really shared.
00:01:33
Speaker 1: What? That we like country music?
00:01:37
Speaker 3: Yeah, we were getting a lot of people in shock to know that we like country music.
00:01:41
Speaker 2: We love country music, doggone it.
00:01:43
Speaker 3: I do. I love it. I love it.
00:01:45
Speaker 1: They play like the best, they have the best storylines.
00:01:48
Speaker 3: And I feel like, especially the men, boy, if they love you, they let you know how much they love you. Like, they know how to express their love in their songs. And it's just be like, dang, that's awesome. And for them to, like, I want a man to feel like.
00:02:03
Speaker 2: That about me. This song right here that I'm about to play. I just want you to see. I want to see if you like it or not.
00:02:11
Speaker 1: Okay.
00:02:12
Speaker 2: All right, so this is a song. For my boo mama.
00:02:18
Speaker 5: Well, I went for it three times to take you on a date.
00:02:23
Speaker 6: And after I gave up, would you turn the tables and try? And then you.
00:02:40
Speaker 7: Still tried to cancel, but I wasn't letting that fly.
00:02:50
Speaker 5: And on the first trip to Vegas, you were burnt out.
00:02:56
Speaker 6: I'll always remember the whole time just watching you sleep. But just to be there with you was.
00:03:11
Speaker 8: Always enough for me.
00:03:19
Speaker 6: And you always tease me for stumbling when I talk.
00:03:24
Speaker 5: You catch me red-handed just trying to play it off.
00:03:29
Speaker 6: But there's no words to tell you. No, there's nothing I could say.
00:03:36
Speaker 8: I fall in love with you all over again every day. And your smile is a mild smile And no one compares as a mother Crystal.
00:04:05
Speaker 5: We may not be perfect But I know.
00:04:12
Speaker 6: We're perfect for each other I know that sometimes we.
00:04:19
Speaker 2: At the time we.
00:04:21
Speaker 6: Were punishing the kings.
00:04:24
Speaker 7: And I fell asleep I'm playing football on our honeymoon But you're still there cheering for.
00:04:37
Speaker 5: Me That's right, man.
00:04:39
Speaker 1: That is so sweet.
00:04:43
Speaker 6: You're the true definition of a mom.
00:04:48
Speaker 8: Can you imagine life without you?
00:04:54
Speaker 5: We ended up right where we belong.
00:04:59
Speaker 2: Everything you do is so amazing.
00:05:02
Speaker 6: And I had to tell.
00:05:04
Speaker 8: You just because.
00:05:10
Speaker 6: Well, I know everybody loves seeing your smile.
00:05:15
Speaker 2: Well, that's fine with me. Just don't give a mind.
00:05:21
Speaker 6: Cause there's no words to tell. No, there's nothing I could say.
00:05:31
Speaker 5: I fall in love with you all over again every day. Hey, you're my heartbeat. My best friend and my lover. This story may not be perfect. But I know we're perfect for each other. Yes, we are.
00:06:06
Speaker 8: It may not be perfect.
00:06:09
Speaker 2: But I know we're perfect.
00:06:11
Speaker 5: For each other.
00:06:15
Speaker 1: You're so sweet. Oh, my God.
00:06:19
Speaker 2: I was not.
00:06:20
Speaker 1: Expecting that at all. But I kept listening to it. I was like, damn.
00:06:26
Speaker 2: That's our story.
00:06:27
Speaker 4: I know.
00:06:27
Speaker 1: But I was like, dang, this is a perfect song.
00:06:30
Speaker 3: I just thought it was randomly a song that we could relate to.
00:06:33
Speaker 2: Until you heard Crystal.
00:06:34
Speaker 4: I did.
00:06:34
Speaker 3: And I was like, Crystal.
00:06:36
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, is this a coincidence?
00:06:41
Speaker 1: Oh, babe, you're so sweet. I love you, my little mama. Oh, my God, you're the sweetest ever. That was the best thing ever.
00:06:52
Speaker 2: I was not expecting it at all.
00:06:57
Speaker 1: You went from.
00:06:58
Speaker 2: A laugh to a cry.
00:07:00
Speaker 6: Thanks.
00:07:00
Speaker 2: I was like.
00:07:03
Speaker 3: That smile.
00:07:04
Speaker 1: I'm like, yep, you do.
00:07:08
Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh, babe.
00:07:09
Speaker 1: I just thought, like, yep, you just been giving me grief.
00:07:12
Speaker 5: Yep.
00:07:13
Speaker 2: You're agreeing with all of it. I was. Yep.
00:07:19
Speaker 3: Because you know there's a lot of songs out there like that.
00:07:24
Speaker 1: Like, you can relate to... So that's why I wasn't even expecting. Babe, when did this happen?
00:07:29
Speaker 2: Don't worry about it, Jack.
00:07:31
Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
00:07:32
Speaker 2: Just call me your little stinker.
00:07:33
Speaker 1: Right. How did you do it?
00:07:36
Speaker 2: I got skills.
00:07:37
Speaker 1: Yes, you do.
00:07:38
Speaker 2: You did that, babe.
00:07:39
Speaker 1: You did that. You might get some tonight.
00:07:43
Speaker 4: Oh!
00:07:44
Speaker 1: Even though I'm tired.
00:07:48
Speaker 5: Yes.
00:07:49
Speaker 2: I'm a big fan of the bro hug.
00:07:50
Speaker 8: Right.
00:07:50
Speaker 2: Like, what up, homie?
00:07:51
Speaker 5: Boom.
00:07:52
Speaker 2: Give that. Bring each other in. Like, what's up, man?
00:07:54
Speaker 1: Okay, we're going to get back to this in a minute. I got to say this before I forget.
00:07:58
Speaker 3: Rocky bro-hugged a young woman that looked like a man.
00:08:03
Speaker 1: And he had no idea. Listen, and this is no disrespect to anybody.
00:08:09
Speaker 3: And I love this young lady because she was okay with it. Because we were getting ready to do a shoot somewhere.
00:08:16
Speaker 1: And he sees this young woman.
00:08:22
Speaker 3: But she does look and dress just like a man. And the voice was like a man.
00:08:28
Speaker 1: So we go up. We're introducing ourselves. Like, hey, how are you? What's up, dog?
00:08:33
Speaker 3: He pounds her hand, brings her in so hard, like, to his chest. It smacks the back of her back.
00:08:40
Speaker 1: Okay? That's what you get. He hurt himself back here.
00:08:44
Speaker 3: And then he did it again at the basketball game when he was getting popcorn for me.
00:08:50
Speaker 1: And somebody... He was like, here you go. He gave it. He's like, thank you, sir. And he was like, I'm a woman. I'm a woman. I'm like, Rocky!
00:09:00
Speaker 3: When I tell you I appreciate them so much, like, every time now I go to the concession stand, I'm.
00:09:05
Speaker 1: Like, I'm sorry. And she's like, don't worry about it. You good.
00:09:08
Speaker 2: You good.
00:09:09
Speaker 1: You good. That's how she say it.
00:09:10
Speaker 4: You good.
00:09:11
Speaker 1: Because that's how she sound. Rocky, I'm not trying to be funny. I'm not. Like, I'm really not.
00:09:17
Speaker 2: Because we were downsizing out of our other house.
00:09:20
Speaker 8: Oh, my God.
00:09:20
Speaker 2: You know, when you're moving. You're like, okay, now you decide, keep this. Goodwill, take this to the goodwill. I'm not going to need this. Okay, that's trash. Okay, this is goodwill. So she's telling me, babe, you ain't going to keep all these doggone clothes.
00:09:33
Speaker 3: Rocky gots every different color of Dickie shorts.
00:09:37
Speaker 2: Oh, I ain't throwing my Dickie shorts away. I ain't giving my Dickie shorts away.
00:09:41
Speaker 1: Babe, when's the last time you, and then these Dickie shorts go to his ankles.
00:09:45
Speaker 2: Yeah, old school. Remember the old school jiggies?
00:09:48
Speaker 1: Who wears those? He cannot wear those ever again. Like, not around me.
00:09:53
Speaker 2: They gonna come in handy one day.
00:09:54
Speaker 1: No, they're not. No, you messed up. You messed up.
00:09:57
Speaker 3: Like, how you gave me a shitty-ass Valentine's not to bring it up. You had to own up to that shit.
00:10:00
Speaker 6: See?
00:10:01
Speaker 1: See? I'm sorry. I didn't mean to bring it up, but you had to own... Did you own up to it?
00:10:04
Speaker 2: I owned up to it, but.
00:10:05
Speaker 1: Okay.
00:10:06
Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, you owned up to it. You couldn't justify it no more. And when you tried to, you got.
00:10:09
Speaker 1: In more trouble.
00:10:10
Speaker 2: Look, so... When you tried.
00:10:12
Speaker 3: Didn't you try to? When you tried to go into that bullshit, talking about, I was just so caught up into your.
00:10:18
Speaker 2: And I finally had to just say, you know what? I messed up.
00:10:20
Speaker 8: Right.
00:10:20
Speaker 1: And then we good.
00:10:22
Speaker 3: Right.
00:10:22
Speaker 1: But that's the point. You didn't do that.
00:10:23
Speaker 2: But aren't we good? But aren't we good? Because you're still bringing the crap up.
00:10:25
Speaker 3: Right.
00:10:26
Speaker 2: So we obviously ain't good.
00:10:27
Speaker 1: We good.
00:10:28
Speaker 2: You having a Will Smith moment.
00:10:29
Speaker 1: Wait, no. The reason why I'm saying.
00:10:31
Speaker 2: Do I need to slap the hell out of you?
00:10:32
Speaker 1: I wish you would.
00:10:33
Speaker 2: Shit.
00:10:33
Speaker 3: I wish to see us two fighting on this podcast today.
00:10:37
Speaker 1: What? Rocky. You lost your damn mind.
00:10:42
Speaker 2: I have no solution for that.
00:10:44
Speaker 1: At all.
00:10:44
Speaker 3: And he just had to listen and understand like. Even if he be like, man, I don't understand. That's the point because you don't understand. So listen and then understand. Doesn't mean you got to agree with it. Doesn't mean it's saying she's right and you wrong and everything. It does not say any of that. All it says is that you're starting to understand why your spouse is reacting and acting the way they are.
00:11:08
Speaker 1: And he just did a yawn.
00:11:09
Speaker 2: Oh, man, that snuck up on me.
00:11:10
Speaker 1: In the midst of that.
00:11:11
Speaker 3: Of this serious, in-depth, important conversation. It wasn't because of what you were saying.
00:11:17
Speaker 1: Okay, this is another example of saying you know your spouse.
00:11:22
Speaker 2: I've been up since what time?
00:11:24
Speaker 1: Listen, this is the point I'm making. Because I know you've been up.
00:11:29
Speaker 2: I was trying to hold it in.
00:11:30
Speaker 1: And you've been running around.
00:11:33
Speaker 3: It's the reason why I'm not going to get mad at you like I would in the past.
00:11:36
Speaker 1: Like, are you serious in the midst of this whole conversation?
00:11:38
Speaker 2: You going to yawn?
00:11:39
Speaker 1: He still tries to not let me have my moment.
00:11:43
Speaker 2: Oh, I'll give you a moment now.
00:11:45
Speaker 3: You do now, but you slipped up a couple of weeks ago.
00:11:48
Speaker 2: I did.
00:11:50
Speaker 1: You don't remember sitting in front of that TV and how you messed up? First of all, let me tell y'all what happened. I'll tell y'all what happened. Been gone all day.
00:11:59
Speaker 3: We ain't seen each other since 4 o'clock in the morning. It is like 7 o'clock at night. He's been at home chilling, relaxing.
00:12:07
Speaker 1: He done fished. He done did all.
00:12:09
Speaker 2: Call me a couple baths.
00:12:11
Speaker 1: He done took a shower. He's relaxed. He's everything.
00:12:14
Speaker 3: So, you know, my son's in the shower and stuff. So I finally sit down. He turns on the Netflix. He starts watching movies. But I'm like, babe. I said, that is so rude. Like, I just got home, and you're turning up the TV. You're laid back. Like, you're not even going to talk to me.
00:12:28
Speaker 2: I'm kicking my feet eating popcorn.
00:12:30
Speaker 1: And then I was like, I should really cut you out right now.
00:12:32
Speaker 2: I was wrong for that.
00:12:33
Speaker 1: And then he was like, ah, you right.
00:12:35
Speaker 3: I said, like, I seriously should have cut you out. Rocky, you do a lot of, like, babe, we going to go here.
00:12:38
Speaker 1: I want to do this. I want to do that.
00:12:40
Speaker 3: Let's go to the movies, this and that. Rocky would be like, babe, you want to go on? This is true story.
00:12:44
Speaker 1: Babe, you want to go to the movies?
00:12:45
Speaker 4: Yeah.
00:12:46
Speaker 3: All right.
00:12:47
Speaker 1: You going to buy the ticket? You going to pick the seats? You going to do this, this and that? Did you all ask me.
00:12:54
Speaker 2: To go to the damn movies?
00:12:55
Speaker 7: This is supposed to be you.
00:12:57
Speaker 1: Oh, you so raggedy. So raggedy. Like, I forgot who. Where did this fall off to be my responsibility to do the shit? Wait a minute. No, wait a minute, nothing. No, wait a minute, nothing.
00:13:09
Speaker 2: I have a legitimate reason and argument for that.
00:13:12
Speaker 1: What?
00:13:12
Speaker 4: So, you love online shopping. Anything with an app on the phone, my wife loves doing.
00:13:19
Speaker 2: I do. So, I'm going to let you enjoy that. So, yeah, I may ask you out for a date. So, when it comes to purchasing the tickets, you're already doing it.
00:13:27
Speaker 1: And he mean it. Do you see that he's justifying this shit? He don't see that he put his foot further and further in his mouth. Let me just say this.
00:13:36
Speaker 3: To all the women that is divorcing or about to separate from their spouse that is a high caliber celebrity or a big athlete, whoever they are, and they got all this money. For some reason, people feel like they should just leave with what they came with.
00:13:52
Speaker 4: Right.
00:13:53
Speaker 3: But when she was with him and she was helping him build all of this together, why shouldn't she get? She was with this man and helped and supported him throughout his career.
00:14:04
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't she? She had his kids.
00:14:07
Speaker 2: So you opening up a... Can of worms on this one right here.
00:14:10
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, because.
00:14:11
Speaker 3: I'm tired of people looking at the women as if they're like gold diggers because these people have a lot of money.
00:14:18
Speaker 1: This man has millions of dollars.
00:14:21
Speaker 3: They expect this woman to get the bare minimum just to take care of the kids. It is not the kids' fault that the marriage is failing. So whoever's fault it is, it shouldn't matter and it shouldn't change these kids' lifestyle.
00:14:33
Speaker 1: So whatever lifestyle it.
00:14:35
Speaker 3: Was when y'all was together, it needs to be the same whenever y'all are separate. So if it has to be the man making sure that happens for their kids, then.
00:14:42
Speaker 1: So be it.
00:14:43
Speaker 2: Let's just say for easy math, $ 100 million.
00:14:45
Speaker 1: Okay.
00:14:46
Speaker 4: He's worth $ 100 million. I can't speak for any other man that's going through the same situation. But if this is me, and let's say I agree with my attorney to give you $ 10 million.
00:14:58
Speaker 2: And because of.
00:15:02
Speaker 4: The type of person that I am, and hopefully you think I'm this type of person, it doesn't stop just at that $ 10 million as far as like, okay, don't bother me no more. You ain't getting another dime. It's like, okay, we split. This is plenty of money for you to keep on.
00:15:19
Speaker 2: Living the same lifestyle you've been living. Keep in mind, for you. This ain't even got nothing to do with the kids yet.
00:15:25
Speaker 1: This is you.
00:15:26
Speaker 3: So you can't say, well, I did the kid stuff and I did the school and the clothes and all that.
00:15:31
Speaker 1: Okay, I get that.
00:15:32
Speaker 2: The kids are going to get taken care of.
00:15:34
Speaker 1: I get that. This is for you. Okay, keep going.
00:15:36
Speaker 3: Now, but what I'm saying is if you're worth $ 100 million, you got.
00:15:42
Speaker 1: $ 100 million.
00:15:43
Speaker 3: And you're talking about giving me $ 10 million.
00:15:47
Speaker 1: Is that how much I was percentage for our marriage? Was I only 10% of our marriage?
00:15:51
Speaker 2: Absolutely not.
00:15:53
Speaker 1: So why would you give me 10%?
00:15:55
Speaker 3: We've already said when we were married, 100-100, right?
00:16:00
Speaker 2: Absolutely.
00:16:01
Speaker 3: And when we do stuff, we always split everything down the middle for us.
00:16:04
Speaker 1: Okay, babe, you're going to take the kids here. I'm going to do this. We always split everything.
00:16:08
Speaker 4: Okay.
00:16:09
Speaker 1: As you were building your career, when your ass was broke, who was there? Me.
00:16:14
Speaker 6: Mm-hmm.
00:16:16
Speaker 3: As you started getting bigger and better, who was there?
00:16:18
Speaker 6: Me.
00:16:19
Speaker 1: Who was rocking with you, your cheerleader? Who was doing that?
00:16:22
Speaker 2: Oh, me.
00:16:22
Speaker 3: Who was taking care of the kids when you were traveling to work, going over here, going over there?
00:16:26
Speaker 1: Who was making sure the household was together while you went out over there, over here, over there? Who made sure your drawers?
00:16:33
Speaker 2: We ain't divorced.
00:16:34
Speaker 1: I know, but I'm just saying, who made sure your drawers? I'm trying to tell y'all what these women are talking about. Who made sure your drawers was clean?
00:16:40
Speaker 2: Me.
00:16:41
Speaker 1: Who made sure dinner was cooked?
00:16:43
Speaker 6: Me.
00:16:44
Speaker 3: So at the end of the day, for you to sit up here and tell me you're going to give me 10% of what you're worth, meaning to tell me that during our marriage, that's how much you thought of me.
00:16:52
Speaker 2: That's a good point.
00:16:53
Speaker 1: So I'll be damned if.
00:16:54
Speaker 3: I'm going to just go ahead and settle for the $ 10 million because I'm worth more than that. Because I helped you be worth $ 100 million, so don't give me that raggedy-ass $ 10 million.
00:17:01
Speaker 1: But let me tell y'all something, what we about to do, though. And then we're able to just let loose as if we were in high school and college again.
00:17:10
Speaker 2: They definitely let loose.
00:17:11
Speaker 4: Remind me to post a video on Instagram with them doing a dance routine.
00:17:17
Speaker 2: And my waft is the only way it kind of goes off.
00:17:22
Speaker 1: I was real happy.
00:17:24
Speaker 2: That's all I'm going to say.
00:17:25
Speaker 1: I was real happy.
00:17:27
Speaker 4: Y'all go check the Perfect Pair podcast Instagram, and you'll see the video we're talking about.
00:17:32
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I was real happy.
00:17:34
Speaker 4: Just pay attention at the very end, when all the other girls were still in routine, and.
00:17:40
Speaker 2: My waft, only my waft.
00:17:42
Speaker 1: Why do you say it like that?
00:17:45
Speaker 2: She just starts turning the other direction.
00:17:47
Speaker 7: What?
00:17:50
Speaker 2: Go check the Perfect Pair podcast on Instagram. You'll see what we're talking about. Go ahead.
00:17:53
Speaker 1: You really go. I don't care. I had such a good time. One dude put his hand on me and I had got a two by four to go get him. I wasn't worried at all.
00:18:02
Speaker 3: Like, I've always been the one like, you're not going to hit me and think I'm just going to sit here and cry. I never understood why women would sit there and just cry when a man beat them.
00:18:09
Speaker 2: Self-defense.
00:18:09
Speaker 1: Right. But I do understand.
00:18:12
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't want to discredit on women getting abused because I know that's like really serious and that's serious.
00:18:17
Speaker 1: But for me... I've always just been a fighter myself.
00:18:20
Speaker 4: So....
00:18:22
Speaker 3: But I'm not bringing that. I never brought that to my next relationship. Like, okay, because he went upside my head. Somebody else is going to go upside my head. No, because if somebody else went upside, I know I'm going to do it to that person too. Maybe I did bring it to the next relationship.
00:18:36
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just saying. Wait. This is going to where it shouldn't be going.
00:18:43
Speaker 3: What I'm saying is we don't need to be playing the victim.
00:18:46
Speaker 1: And bringing all that drama to the next.
00:18:49
Speaker 2: Stop laughing.
00:18:49
Speaker 1: I went up a little bit.
00:18:54
Speaker 3: Rocky Rocky wants me to tell my story and be frustrated and I got a good three minutes to sit in that shit cause if I pass that three minute mark he gonna be like it's too long you mad for the world you mad all day you mad for years I'm like I mean that's when we had.
00:19:10
Speaker 2: To come up with my moment give her her moment.
00:19:12
Speaker 3: When I say he has no empathy at all he just looking at me he be looking like like almost tapping his finger like you ready for the solution ready for me to tell you how to.
00:19:20
Speaker 1: Fix this No, this is his first thing.
00:19:23
Speaker 2: I am guilty of this.
00:19:23
Speaker 1: This is what he did. You want to know what I think?
00:19:26
Speaker 3: No.
00:19:28
Speaker 4: No.
00:19:29
Speaker 6: No.
00:19:29
Speaker 1: I don't want to know what you think. I sure don't. Why are you laughing? You're so disrespectful right now. Jesus shit. Rocky. You need your answer. You know how.
00:19:44
Speaker 3: You're supposed to close your mirrors to come in? Yeah. I do, but when I was reversing this one, time, I didn't fold the mirrors in.
00:19:52
Speaker 2: The whole mirror went wah-wah.
00:19:54
Speaker 3: And as I'm going back, as I'm going back, I see that it wasn't going to clear, but I couldn't stop for some reason.
00:20:03
Speaker 2: Once again, hit the freaking brake.
00:20:06
Speaker 1: She keeps going. And it goes and it just.
00:20:09
Speaker 2: And she keeps going. She panics.
00:20:11
Speaker 1: I did.
00:20:12
Speaker 2: You hear it crackling and you just keep going.
00:20:14
Speaker 3: I did.
00:20:15
Speaker 2: I did.
00:20:16
Speaker 1: I've only did it like four times.
00:20:18
Speaker 2: You hear that?
00:20:19
Speaker 4: Yeah.
00:20:21
Speaker 2: Only four times.
00:20:23
Speaker 1: Only four times.
00:20:24
Speaker 3: And now he's just like, every time, babe, let me show you.
00:20:28
Speaker 1: You know, this is a true story. He puts a.
00:20:30
Speaker 3: Mattress in the garage to where I have nowhere to stop. Right.
00:20:36
Speaker 1: So I won't run into it.
00:20:37
Speaker 2: This is true. It's a true story. There's a damn mattress in the garage.
00:20:40
Speaker 1: The true story is a mattress.
00:20:42
Speaker 2: It can serve as a bumper. When I make her play, it don't look like a bumper.
00:20:46
Speaker 3: No, it has juices all running through it, swirling around.
00:20:49
Speaker 2: So if you lean the plate a little bit, shit might fall off. I'm like, babe.
00:20:53
Speaker 1: But I don't say anything. I'm like, you know what, babe? Thank you. Shit, thank you. I appreciate it.
00:20:59
Speaker 2: Hey, so you want me to pay attention to detail?
00:21:00
Speaker 4: Yes!
00:21:01
Speaker 1: Like, every time I'm like, babe.
00:21:04
Speaker 2: I think we just discovered why you don't like me making your blade.
00:21:06
Speaker 1: That's okay. I get it myself.
00:21:08
Speaker 3: Because by the time, I'm going to have to get up and get everything anyway because you don't get everything.
00:21:12
Speaker 2: No, it makes sense now because you be not feeling well.
00:21:16
Speaker 4: You'd be sick, and I'm like, hey, babe, I'll make you play before you.
00:21:19
Speaker 2: Steve would be like, ah, I'll come in and get it.
00:21:21
Speaker 1: Every time. It's okay, babe. Because I would either get irritated, like, really? Every time?
00:21:29
Speaker 3: We've been together 16 years, and he still forgets a fork, or he still won't bring a napkin.
00:21:37
Speaker 1: And here, look, oh, you want something to drink?
00:21:39
Speaker 6: Do you think?
00:21:41
Speaker 1: Yes. Babe, why are you laughing? Don't wash dishes. You won't.
00:21:46
Speaker 2: I sure don't.
00:21:47
Speaker 1: He won't.
00:21:47
Speaker 2: But I don't have a problem doing it. But here's why I don't. Because you don't like the way I wash dishes.
00:21:51
Speaker 4: No.
00:21:52
Speaker 1: Babe, you liar.
00:21:54
Speaker 2: You don't like the way I wash dishes.
00:21:55
Speaker 3: Rocky.
00:21:55
Speaker 2: You don't like the way I wash clothes.
00:21:57
Speaker 1: No, I don't.
00:21:57
Speaker 2: You don't like the way I fold clothes.
00:21:59
Speaker 1: No, I don't.
00:22:00
Speaker 2: So what's the point?
00:22:01
Speaker 6: No.
00:22:01
Speaker 1: Okay, listen.
00:22:02
Speaker 2: Why am I going to do all this when you're going to go behind me and redo it anyways?
00:22:06
Speaker 1: No. What I'm saying is, Rocky, you won't wash.
00:22:09
Speaker 3: I don't even remember when you ever washed a dish since we've been together.
00:22:13
Speaker 1: Dating.
00:22:14
Speaker 3: Dating. Girlfriend, boyfriend, fiance, to husband and wife. Rocky has not washed one dick. I came home and I said, babe, do you notice.
00:22:28
Speaker 2: Anything different from me?
00:22:30
Speaker 1: You haven't said anything.
00:22:31
Speaker 3: I've been at home for like 10 hours by now.
00:22:34
Speaker 1: And he hasn't said anything.
00:22:36
Speaker 3: I bet I had got my lashes done, okay? So, he didn't even know. This is the first time I've ever done eyelash extensions.
00:22:42
Speaker 1: Just FYI.
00:22:43
Speaker 2: Now, keep in mind, they wasn't like big eyelash extensions.
00:22:46
Speaker 1: So, this time when he ain't said nothing all day. Dang, he ain't said nothing. So I was like, babe, have you noticed anything different about me? He was like, oh. Yeah, come on. Let me show you. He was like, oh, yeah. He just, he kept grabbing me like, babe, yeah, yeah. I said, what is it?
00:23:11
Speaker 4: You look nice.
00:23:12
Speaker 1: What is it?
00:23:13
Speaker 3: What about that looks so nice.
00:23:15
Speaker 1: About what I got on?
00:23:16
Speaker 4: Well, how to kill the mood in the bedroom. You already know my number one. That damn Bonnie. She got heels on.
00:23:22
Speaker 3: Cherry apple, fire engine red.
00:23:25
Speaker 1: I thought I was killing it, too, though. I did. I did.
00:23:30
Speaker 2: Beautiful lingerie, y'all. Come into bed like, yo. I'm like, uh-huh. It's about to be, oh. Just imagine the camera and the movie starting from the heels on. Going slow all the way up to the legs. Then you get to the lingerie. Then you get up to the breast area. Then the neck.
00:23:49
Speaker 5: Then the lips.
00:23:50
Speaker 2: Then the face is beautiful. And then, bam! A big-ass bucket bonnet on your head. You're taking all this time to get down.
00:23:59
Speaker 5: Ready.
00:23:59
Speaker 2: And get your little sexiness on.
00:24:01
Speaker 1: I did.
00:24:02
Speaker 2: You looked in the mirror before you came out the bathroom.
00:24:05
Speaker 1: What part of that picture?
00:24:06
Speaker 3: I got myself, I was hyping myself up.
00:24:08
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, you about to do this. I just knew. I was about to turn it out with that monitor and everything. When you support him from a distance, that means a lot to them.
00:24:18
Speaker 2: Huge.
00:24:18
Speaker 1: And they know.
00:24:19
Speaker 3: And when they come back around to start to tell you what everything is, and then you're receiving it.
00:24:24
Speaker 1: You're listening.
00:24:25
Speaker 3: You stop and you listen to him, whether you agree with him or not. Stop and listen to him on what he's saying he's done and what he's going to do, why he was being so distant with you. And just understand where he's coming from. And when you start to do that, you start to communicate better. And even if he was wrong, now you can tell him, well, babe, I don't think this is a good idea. He's more willing to listen to what.
00:24:45
Speaker 2: You have to say. Message. You preaching today, Jack? Shoot. My boo mama preaching today.
00:24:52
Speaker 3: I'm walking around the house. I put on my little shorts. You know, my little cute little outfit.
00:24:57
Speaker 2: And I compliment you every time you. Okay, that's another thing. Because she was walking around looking fine.
00:25:02
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's another thing.
00:25:03
Speaker 2: Like, fine, I caught him.
00:25:04
Speaker 1: He said, oh, babe, you're looking good. What?
00:25:06
Speaker 3: Okay, so that shit, I'm thinking, okay, that's a hint. He's starting to get the hint, like, babe, you're looking good, this and that. I'll run a candlelight bath water with, like, this little Epson lavender in there, everything to soak his body.
00:25:19
Speaker 1: Bathe him. This fool goes to sleep.
00:25:24
Speaker 2: I got a reason for it.
00:25:25
Speaker 1: I got a reason.
00:25:26
Speaker 2: You put me to sleep, bae. That lavender bath? By the way, keep that on our list because you got to keep doing that.
00:25:32
Speaker 7: No.
00:25:32
Speaker 1: I don't get nothing out of it.
00:25:34
Speaker 2: I ain't never been that relaxed.
00:25:35
Speaker 1: You said I don't. Why would I do stuff like that?
00:25:39
Speaker 2: I ain't never been that relaxed, bae. I was like, yo. I was like, man. That I don't. I felt like a little baby. Y'all didn't say you sleep like a baby.
00:25:46
Speaker 1: You did. You did.
00:25:48
Speaker 2: I curled up and started sucking my thumbs.
00:25:49
Speaker 3: We came home this summer and I told her. You have to tell us where you going and coming.
00:25:55
Speaker 2: True story.
00:25:55
Speaker 1: Don't be coming out all hours of the night. Be respectful. And then, if you're not going to pay no bills, you better clean up. Yeah. How many times did I have to get on to her?
00:26:03
Speaker 2: You had to remind her a couple times.
00:26:04
Speaker 1: Okay, and how many times did you get on to her?
00:26:05
Speaker 2: I didn't have to because you already did.
00:26:07
Speaker 3: Okay, exactly, exactly. But you already did. But no, and then every time I'm telling her, don't give her money. Every single time, who gives her money?
00:26:14
Speaker 2: Hold on now.
00:26:16
Speaker 3: Time out you every babe every single time even right before we left listen first of all me and my daughter we get braids all the time so there's all kinds of braids hair in my house when i say colors you know it you see out here wait no no.
00:26:29
Speaker 2: How do you buy braids with money Thank you. So who's giving her the money to buy the hair and to get this?
00:26:35
Speaker 1: You.
00:26:36
Speaker 2: No, you're doing it.
00:26:37
Speaker 1: You paid for the hair.
00:26:38
Speaker 2: Didn't you just say, we get our braids done all the time. We get our nails done all the time.
00:26:42
Speaker 6: We do.
00:26:42
Speaker 1: Okay, listen.
00:26:43
Speaker 3: But this, she has stipulations for me. But you, no, you don't ever say anything to her. I told you, told you not to give her money for her hair. I told you that already.
00:26:52
Speaker 2: No, you told me afterwards. I didn't know the hair was in the house.
00:26:56
Speaker 6: No.
00:26:57
Speaker 1: And then I was like, babe, she got me again.
00:26:59
Speaker 2: She does get me quite a few times.
00:27:00
Speaker 1: Okay, okay.
00:27:01
Speaker 2: But this particular time, I didn't know they was already here now.
00:27:05
Speaker 1: Anytime I get, she take it back. No, she can't take it back. Like, she got to use it. The point of the matter is.
00:27:10
Speaker 4: But you can't be sitting up here and act like you don't be giving her money because you be giving.
00:27:14
Speaker 2: Her money behind my back. Talking about don't tell your daddy.
00:27:17
Speaker 1: No, I do.
00:27:18
Speaker 2: Look at that camera.
00:27:19
Speaker 1: I do. I hate baths.
00:27:21
Speaker 4: Right.
00:27:22
Speaker 3: And I hate baths after workouts. So I go workout three times a week. And I work out at night. So I leave the house about 5.30. I probably won't get home until about 7.30. That means Rocky has two hours to himself with me being gone. And the reason why I'm saying this is because I'm setting it up right. He knows when I come home from working out that I want to get in the shower because nobody wants to just be sitting in their sweat after you're working out.
00:27:46
Speaker 1: I hate that. He knows I just want to get in the shower. I want to make sure that I'm clean.
00:27:51
Speaker 3: Now, in our house, at the moment, for some reason, when you run bath water, it takes all the hot water, no matter what. My husband loves taking baths.
00:27:59
Speaker 2: Sure do.
00:28:00
Speaker 1: And I'm okay with that. Like, okay, that's fine.
00:28:02
Speaker 3: I call him right before I'm coming from after my workout, and I'm letting him know, babe, I'm going to stop by the post office, and then I'm going to come home. He was like, all right, do y'all need anything? Because I always try to make sure they got something, because I didn't cook that night.
00:28:13
Speaker 1: Right. And I was like, make sure they got something to eat, so on and so forth. He said, oh, we good. We got food.
00:28:17
Speaker 3: Cool.
00:28:17
Speaker 1: Because I'm being thoughtful. Listen, I'm being real thoughtful.
00:28:21
Speaker 3: To make sure the kid, my son and my honey has eaten and they're good.
00:28:25
Speaker 1: So I come home.
00:28:27
Speaker 3: I hear that damn bath water running. And I just looked at him. I said, you've got to be kidding me.
00:28:34
Speaker 1: Are you serious?
00:28:35
Speaker 4: Ladies and gentlemen, Billy goats and girls and bats and everything else.
00:28:39
Speaker 1: Why do you do that? Just say ladies and gentlemen or just say hi. We are here to tell you guys where to subscribe.
00:28:47
Speaker 2: Why are you talking like that? You don't even talk like that.
00:28:49
Speaker 1: I know. Because I'm waiting for you. Okay. Subscribe.
00:28:54
Speaker 3: Please listen.
00:28:55
Speaker 1: You will not be sorry.
00:28:57
Speaker 2: Did you just fart?
00:28:58
Speaker 6: No.
00:28:59
Speaker 1: That's your breath.
00:29:00
Speaker 8: Oh.
00:29:02
Speaker 4: Oh.
00:29:02
Speaker 2: Come back, Tom.
00:29:04
Speaker 4: Oh.
00:29:04
Speaker 3: Oh.
00:29:05
Speaker 4: Oh.
00:29:05
Speaker 1: Bye.
00:29:06
Speaker 4: That's what you get.